Helping Your Grieving Dog: Tips For Coping With Loss

Losing a furry friend can be a heartbreaking experience, not just for humans but it can be equally upsetting to our canine companions. Dogs are incredibly social and sensitive creatures, and they too can feel the pain of losing a mate. They experience a range of emotions including joy, fear, sadness and even empathy. Studies have shown that dogs can exhibit empathy by comforting distressed humans or other dogs and showing concern for their well-being.

While their emotional range may not be as complex as humans’, dogs can still form strong bonds with their owners and mates, and show signs of affection, loyalty and distress. They express these emotions through body language, vocalizations and behaviour, such as wagging their tails when happy or whining when anxious. If your dog is grieving the loss of a companion, here are some helpful tips to support them through this difficult time:

1. Spend quality time together – Your comforting presence is the best medicine for your grieving dog. Spend extra time with them, offering gentle petting, cuddles and reassuring words. Let them know they're not alone in their sorrow.

2. Maintain routine – Dogs thrive on routine, and sticking to their usual schedule can provide a sense of stability and security during times of grief. Stick to regular feeding times, walks and play sessions to help them feel grounded.

3. Monitor behaviour – Keep an eye on your dog's behaviour and mood while they're grieving. Look out for signs of excessive withdrawal, anxiety or changes in appetite or sleep patterns. If you notice any concerning symptoms, consult with your vet or behaviourist for guidance and support. Natural remedies such as Rescue Remedy Pet or other herbal / homeopathic aids may help to stabilise or uplift your dog’s mood and help them cope better.

4. Engage in fun activities – Keep your dog occupied with activities they enjoy. Take them for walks in their favourite spots, engage in playtime with their favourite toys and challenge them with puzzle toys to keep their mind stimulated.

5. Create a safe space – Designate a quiet and peaceful area in your home where your dog can retreat to when they need time alone. Ensure this space is away from noisy or high-traffic areas and provide familiar items such as blankets, toys or clothing with your scent on it to offer comfort. Also include plenty of fresh drinking water.

6. Respect their boundaries – Allow your dog to express their grief in their own way and respect their need for space. Avoid forcing them to socialise or participate in activities if they're not ready. Be patient and let them come out of their shell at their own pace.

7. Introduce slowly – Many people give an older rescue dog a home in remembrance of their dog that has passed away. Some prefer a puppy. Regardless of your choice, if you're considering getting another furry friend for your grieving dog, take the time to ensure that both you and your dog have healed from the loss. Introduce them gradually and allow your dog to adjust to the new companion at their own pace, ensuring a positive and stress-free transition.

In conclusion:

Losing a mate is a challenging experience for any dog, but with your love, patience, and understanding, you can help them navigate through their grief. Be there for them, provide comfort and reassurance and remember that healing takes time. Together, you'll get through this difficult period and your bond will only grow stronger in the process.